My Greatest Enemy is My Inner Me

This blog will tell the story of an up-and-coming young black man in his 20's

Friday, November 17, 2006

Significant Blogger?

Happy Friday to all. I like to keep subjects light on Fridays for some reason. And here's another for the masses........

Most of you all that come by my blog are also regular readers of the boy Slish. And you know that he speaks glowingly of his lady "Barneys". What makes this even more interesting is that not only does she know about his blog, but will even contribute her thoughts as well. I often tell myself that when I find the next possible chick, I would love to tell her about my blog and give her free will to comment. I even thought about telling Chappelle # 2 about my spot, but then remembered I haven't exactly about her in the best way. (LOL)

So here's my questions of the day:

1.) Does your current man/woman/piece know about your blog?

2.) In the future if you met a person, would you tell them about your blog, the way it is now?

3.) For those of you who have dated someone and it is now over AND they know about your blog, do you regret letting them know about it?

Thanks for Reading,
Robert L. Mack


Blogger Mr.Slish said...

Truth be told Barneys found my blog on her own after I had metnioned it to her. She was reading it for about 3 months before she let me know she had access to it..LOL....

I like the fact that she reads it keeps me honest..

Most of my friends read my blog and they know I talk about them. Some are just to shy to comment.

Personally anyone you consider a friend should be able to read your blog that includes a significant other.

Fri Nov 17, 11:55:00 AM  
Blogger Bklyn Diva said...

yeah he knows.. he reads it on ocassion.. never commented but has commented to me.. Makes me laugh especially when he comments on comments that are made.. :) LOL He normally reads more so after he has pissed me off about something to see if I'm gone blast him.. which I don't.. I just blast him face to face LOL

*by the way lil bruh..if you read some more you'll understand the change.. its part of a cleansing.. remember RIF*

Fri Nov 17, 01:07:00 PM  
Anonymous chele said...

1) No
2) No
3) N/A

Fri Nov 17, 02:35:00 PM  
Blogger T.C. said...

I am with Mr. Slish...

1. my current buddy knows about it...he reads it from time to time, hell he might read it daily, he isn't the type to tell me...

2. yea I have nothing to hide...

3. I don't really date, but the majority of my friends and family knows about my keeps me honest and straight up, which is how I really like to be in life...

I think she would find you blog if she really wanted to, you never know what you have said in passing to her...

by the by...nice handsome picture...

Fri Nov 17, 02:36:00 PM  
Blogger onecoolhoney said...

1. Yeah, he knows and he SAID he wasn't going to read it, but then he'll come ask me about something I posted!!

2. Nope!!! They're usually too scared of me when they meet me already as it is. I do not want to give them any more reason than they already came up with on their own.

3. n/a

Fri Nov 17, 02:47:00 PM  
Blogger Royce's Daughter said...

1) Yes he knows I have a Blog and he wants to read it but I told him that I was uncomfortable with that. he was upset...felt like I wasn't open to sharing my writing with him or that I had something to hide but eventually he stopped bringing it up. I am sometimes scared that he's googled me and reads it anyway but whatever!!!

2) HELL NO!!! I like the fact that my blog is personal (with the exception of all the people who read it)...personal in the way that I can talk about anything without having to watch what I say for fear of hurting someone. I know my current "Boo" is cool but I also know that he'd be a little uncomfortable with some of the stuff I talk about with respect to my past or my feelings.

3) doesn't apply...never told anyone I dated. Well that's not true Nation of Islam knew about it and read my first entry but he didn't save the link and when asked for it again I avoided giving it to him...oh well LOL!!

Thanks for writing :-)

Fri Nov 17, 02:50:00 PM  
Blogger Miz JJ said...

I agree with Roycee. I can't imagine having NMB reading my blog. He would want to come in with his wack opinion. Plus, I like to be free to vent and be a bitch. I would censor myself too much.

Fri Nov 17, 03:06:00 PM  
Blogger Miss Ahmad said...

humm interesting

1) yes

2) depends

3) no

Although I am technically single, my "friend" reads myshit from time to time and usually calls me and tells me to get off the couch and go outside and have some fun. I think he's too narcissitic to read too much of my stuff which works to my advantage.

Fri Nov 17, 03:31:00 PM  
Blogger Nika Laqui said...

I would love for people I know to read my blog...whats so crazy is, I thought about sending the young'n my blog today, but then I remembered....

Everyone, even some of the readers, can't accept what I have to say and how I feel about shit....

These are my inner most thoughts, everyone can't be privy to that, especially, if they are still young and don't know they "Butt from they bootyhole"....

I made that mistake once, Puddy #1 had my blog and one day he read about my freaky dealings and was upset...
Puddy #2 is so jealous, he don't wanna hear about no other nigga, and thats mostly what I talk about....
So no one can have this blog.....

I'm even thinking about changing my blog....cause when I do a google on any given word, BAM, there I am...

Fri Nov 17, 03:59:00 PM  
Blogger Tenacious said...


1. Yes he does, does he still read it, I don't know he doesn't bring anything up from my blog

2. As much as I like to hear the sound of my own voice sometimes, I'm sure there wouldnt be a need, he can hear it from my own mouth

3. I WISH some of my exes would read my blog to find out how much of an annoyance they are....

Fri Nov 17, 06:14:00 PM  
Blogger Tenacious said...

@ Mr. Mack

I'm in town on Tuesday, I expect to see you. No excuses.

I wouldn't mind going to party in Vegas but I'm not the star struck star fucker. Maybe I came off too harsh making them seem like hoes, but I know it wouldn't take much to get them in that VIP suite.

And I've been told I have that look by quite a few men, usually it's either "I look like I don't do it or you'd have to break my arm in order to get me to do it" or "I don't do it well"

Oh well. I told you I'm amused by the craziest shit....

Fri Nov 17, 06:17:00 PM  
Blogger nikki said...

1. yes
2. i wouldn't tell him about it right off, cuz he's probably gonna be alluded to in it. i'd tell him about it once it got really serious and i knew i'd no longer be mentioning him on the blog, cuz once it's serious, it's OFF LIMITS.
3. that hasn't happened, but i wouldn't regret it cuz my blog is my expression. if he ain't feeling it, he can fuck off. the end.

Fri Nov 17, 07:56:00 PM  
Anonymous Newy said...

1.) Does your current man/woman/piece know about your blog? yes

2.) In the future if you met a person, would you tell them about your blog, the way it is now? yep

3.) For those of you who have dated someone and it is now over AND they know about your blog, do you regret letting them know about it? nope and if it got to that point...I would change the url ;-)LOL BTW...Like the new pic in the profile

Fri Nov 17, 08:49:00 PM  
Blogger 1969 said...


Although if he read it, I wouldn't mind. It just wouldn't be my private space anymore.

Fri Nov 17, 09:06:00 PM  
Blogger *snake*bite* said...

Well Mr Mack i still haven't got my pics from you but i like the current on the pro. - Very nice baby x x x
Did he know - Nope
Would i tell him - Not sure
Would i tell someone new - unless they brought it up in conv then nope not really any point.
Still love ya regardless baby - u no we go it x x x Lol!!

Sat Nov 18, 06:42:00 AM  
Blogger Organized Noise said...

The last woman I dated had access to my blog. Sometimes she'd question me about a post, sometimes I found myself holding back because I knew she might come across it. Out of respect for her, I never posted anything about her though.

HELL NO. The only people who'll know about my blog from now on are other bloggers.

No. I didn't feel uncomfortable about her reading it. It's not like she can use anything in it against me. I've owned up to everything I have ever posted.

Sat Nov 18, 09:43:00 AM  
Blogger Curlycurvynervy said...

#1- He may have found it, but for some reason (usually cuz I put him on blast etc) I just kept it to myself.
#2 Probably, maybe we will meet through it, who knows.
#3 N/A

Sat Nov 18, 02:05:00 PM  
Blogger The Mistress said...

Well Mr. K knows I have a blog but he doesn't know the URL and even if he did, he can't read it anyway cause I have his IP address and I blocked him just in case he stumbles upon it! Bwahahahahaha!! :-)

He can read it after we're married in April of 2010 though. I've said nothing but flattering things about him so far.

Now in case the wedding doesn't happen, the next man I date CAN NOT read my blog.

It's just hard to talk about people candidly when they read your blog. That's just my feeling.

Sat Nov 18, 05:47:00 PM  
Blogger DivineLavender said...

You know I am new to this blogging thing.

1. Nope

2. Hell Naw

3. Yeap... I had done that. You know what I realized that some bloggers (especially one EXish) in particular wanted me to be his blog groupie! He would question me if I read it and if I didn't read his posting he would get pissed. Then he would get mad if I didn't leave a comment. When I would leave a comment and one he didn't like he would be all in face about it. Maybe he is just weird!

Plus, I love for an EX to read my is blast time BABY!

Sat Nov 18, 07:16:00 PM  
Blogger SynSational said...

Does my 'current' know about my blog? Ummm, which one? I don't really have a current...just kickin it friends...LOL. A couple of them know, one reads faithfully, the other wants to read but I won't give him the URL, and the others, well, they aren't online like that.

If I meet someone new, maybe I'll open it up to them, see what they have to say.

I can't really answer this last question, but if it was over, I think I would be like, eff it, you don't matter anymore, anyway.

Sat Nov 18, 08:24:00 PM  
Blogger NegroPino™ said...

.) Does your current man/woman/piece know about your blog?

2.) In the future if you met a person, would you tell them about your blog, the way it is now?
Unless i met him thru my blog , i wouldnt tell him cuz i would hafta sensor my thoughts which i already do now cuz ppl read it.

3.) For those of you who have dated someone and it is now over AND they know about your blog, do you regret letting them know about it?

DOes apply to me but i have talked to guys and told them i had a website and after things fell through i would just keep it basic and not say anybody's names like i use to to protect ppl

Mon Nov 20, 08:05:00 AM  
Blogger Knockout Zed said...

I don't have a current chick at all BUT the one I like the most knows and reads my shit.

Since she already reads, question 2 is moot.

I wish she didn't know about the blog in some instances. But sometimes I get to let her know what I think without telling her directly, so it all works out.

Young man, if I were you, I'd keep this part of my life separate from her.


Mon Nov 20, 11:06:00 AM  
Blogger SomeOne said...

hmm i only recently let friends in on the fact i have a blog...i only know of a few that read it...i let a new male companion read my blog...but i've just recently mentioned him....don't know if i'll write about hime it good or bad...

Mon Nov 20, 12:06:00 PM  
Blogger Blah Blah Blah said...

1 and 2...Hell No!
3. Yes

@ Slish: whateva ain't eff'n honest...your effin' omitting! Ha!

RMack: You's finer than a the new pic.

Mon Nov 20, 12:24:00 PM  
Blogger G. Mo said...

1.) Yeah, my fiancee knows about my blog. It's kinda hard to hide it if I tried cuz my blog is part of my website. No big deal at all. In fact, she's a blogger herself.

2.) I tell folks about it in general. I don't have anything to hide and just speak my peace.

3.) Now that one is kinda sketchy. My current fiancee and I were just friends when I started my blog, so that's never been an issue. However, I do have some ex's (who I'm not on good terms with) out there who tend to 'spy' on me by reading my blog entries and then like to leave voicemail messages or email comments directly to me. It's annoying at times, but nothing serious.

Mon Nov 20, 08:12:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

The boyfriend knows about my blog but I really wish he didn't... I mean its all well and good now.. but on a day that I wanna really vent.. i'd probably censor myself .. i mean he promised not to go on it.. but say we're having problems and he wanted a clue.. he just might take a peep at it... if we broke up and i was hookin up with someone else... he'd see all the details on my blog... I mean I really wish he didn't know.. I hope he forgets... lol.. wats the chances of that. I'd let a guy after him know I had a blog.. but not give them the site... what I want them to know.. I'd read to em... FIrst time on your blog... LUvs it... definitely bookmarkin u!

Thu Nov 23, 12:10:00 AM  

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