My Greatest Enemy is My Inner Me

This blog will tell the story of an up-and-coming young black man in his 20's

Tuesday, September 26, 2006

And Baby Makes Three?.........The Rob Mack Edition




What up yall, Sorry to have been away. But I'm back - well sort of. I'm still going thru writers' block, but an interesting scenario surfaced last night while on the phone with a lady friend that I've been talking to for a few weeks.






*I got today's title from a story that The Serial Dater once told*





As you begin to talk to a new person, you go through the initial stage of talking about quirks, likes, dislikes, wants, needs, and what-nots. This is the stage that me and Tia are still in. I talked to her on Friday night, and she said that she was really thinking of going to the Museum of Science and Industry on Saturday morning. I told her that I would be game, seeing as though I'm literally 5 minutes from the museum (A while back I remember telling Zed that I'm ashamed of myself for living so close to it yet I've only been once in the 5 years I've been living in South Shore).


Saturday came and I didn't get a call from Tia. Which was fine because I was up until 3 that morning watching Katt Williams' stand up act (it was funny but I fell asleep).


I talked to Tia last night, and as I stated earlier we're still in the "feeling each other out" stage. She tells me that she didn't do much this weekend except sleep. After talking to her for an hour, I guess she felt that she has enough trust in me to inform me that she just found out that she was pregnant over the weekend.



Now before anyone even thinks about it, it ain't mine. LOL. We haven't even went out yet, its been purely "conversing" on the phone.



She says that she is unsure what to do, because she sees no future with the seed giver (aka the baby daddy). She said she was pregnant once before but she had a miscarriage, but she is not ready for any kids yet. Then again, who is right?


So here's my quandary: Say she keeps the kid, should I go ahead and end any possible dating with her and just remain her friend? Seeing that I'm childless and I didn't have fun in making this baby with her, why would I want to take on that responsibility? Run away, young man, run away.................



Or if I'm really feeling her and I'm willing to accept the situation, do I stay around and see what happens?


Or do I go the Serial Dater route and mess around with her a few times seeing that she's already preggers? Hey, I hear that pregnant pussy is the best..........LOL...............That's what I hear......................................



I think most of you all that have read me for a while know which way I am leaning, but I just wanted opinions from my peoples.




Thanks for Reading,

Robert Mack

32 Comments:

Blogger Knockout Zed said...

Pregnant pussy is the best, if it's not your seed.

That being said, don't fuck with her, Champ. If you start feeling her, you're fucked.

KZ

Tue Sep 26, 10:03:00 AM  
Blogger SynSational said...

All I'm going to say is don't do it....trouble lies ahead on some many different levels, I can't even explain them all. To keep it short, don't do it, trust me on that.

Tue Sep 26, 10:13:00 AM  
Blogger Tenacious said...

walk away from the pussy Mr Mack....just walk away. Pregnant cooch and all, you better find some unpregnant cooch and pretend

I've seen this before and usually it ends pretty bad. I mean u can't really be her friend b/c initially u were digging her and if u stick around u could end up right on that birth certificate and you know how Chicago courts are...

I'm sure she's a nice girl but what type of relationship could you have?

Tue Sep 26, 10:38:00 AM  
Anonymous MzNewAgenda said...

Keep it moving bro....don't get caught up. You know you are not through sowing your oats so don't even get involved.

Tue Sep 26, 11:04:00 AM  
Blogger Paula D. said...

Run Mack ruuuuuunnnnnnnnnnnnnn!

Tue Sep 26, 11:26:00 AM  
Blogger Blah Blah Blah said...

Let it go. Even if she doesn't have the kid...let her go.

Tue Sep 26, 12:47:00 PM  
Blogger 1969 said...

Don't even walk.....Run Robert Run.

She needs to deal with her personal life before she even entertains the thought of dating someone else.

Tue Sep 26, 01:06:00 PM  
Anonymous Tiger said...

Talk as friend, but that is how far I'll take it because you will still have to deal with the baby daddy. I don't want you caught up in anything cause I don't want to have to hurt that girl if she brings some drama into your life.

Tue Sep 26, 01:48:00 PM  
Blogger TTD said...

keep it purely as a friendship.. even that.. she stood you up! that would be my excuse.. lol

Tue Sep 26, 01:59:00 PM  
Blogger Robert L. Mack said...

Zed
I'm not feeling her like that. Not really....Not to be a capt savahoe

SYNsational
I know...

Tenacious
Yeah I know I can't be her friend....well I mean we can be cool....LOL@ Birth Certificate...wouldn't that be something right there....

Newy
Every time I hear sowing oats, I think of Coming to America. LOL...

Paula D.
I got my Air Max 90's on!

Blah
Hmm...interesting...if she doesn't keep it, why should I let her go? you think her and "dude" still got some issues?

1969
Yeah I know....I'm glad she told me and didnt hold it in...

Tiger
LOL...I was just on the phone with her Friday night when Frosty came by...Naw you know me better than anyone, I stays away from drama...hook me up with that chick that you was talking about and divert my attention. LOL!!!!

TTD
I didnt want to go, but I find myself staying in the crib too much on Saturdays so it would have made me get out...Stay tuned, this story will be revisited some time in the future.

Tue Sep 26, 02:26:00 PM  
Blogger Robyn said...

I am with most of the respondents....


walk away.....

this can only end in tears.....

LOL

Tue Sep 26, 02:33:00 PM  
Blogger Miz JJ said...

That's a mess you do not need to be a part of. Like you said you didn't cause it. There is plenty more pussy out there.

Tue Sep 26, 03:05:00 PM  
Blogger Phoenix said...

Ditto to all the other comments. Don't even invovle yourself in that. Since she is early in the pregnancy there will be some shit she is going to have to work out with the baby daddy and it most likely won't be pleasant.

and if you do decide to stay in a few months their ain't gonna be much time for you. She's gonna be all wrapped up with that baby

Tue Sep 26, 04:04:00 PM  
Blogger Robert L. Mack said...

Robyn
First time here? Hmm, lemme find out you've been lurking on my blog....LOL...kidding, welcome to my crazy but real as I can be blog...
end in tears huh?

Miz JJ
*Having a KZ moment*
Is that wrong of me to smile when I see you use the term pussy?
Just askin......


Phoenix
Hey you blog more please!
Oh yeah I hear what you're saying..all I can say is....KEEP READING AND COMING BACK FOR MORE........I'll come back to this story down the line sometime....I'm going back into my Blogger Cave.....

Tue Sep 26, 04:37:00 PM  
Blogger T. Cas said...

It really depends how deep you are in the situation. If you aint deep at all, thats probably not the best situation for you. If you kinda deep, then have that grown peoples conversation so that its clear what each of you expect from the other. If either one of you can't handle it, then let it go.

P.S. Pregnant pussy is amazing. LOL

Tue Sep 26, 05:36:00 PM  
Blogger DivineLavender said...

Rob...You know the answer.

How come you get the ones with all the drama for ya Momma? I know there are some women without chilllen and minin chillen in their belly's around here?

Dang...I am frustrated for you. I swear they gives out condoms for free!

*Chicago women must have supper-dupper ripe ovaries or something...Dog-gone-It!*

Tue Sep 26, 07:06:00 PM  
Blogger Nika Laqui said...

MACK, let the gentleman go...

HIT THAT HIT THAT...

Tue Sep 26, 07:30:00 PM  
Blogger Nika Laqui said...

DivineLavender, all the Dallas women are pregnant, I think its just the summer heat! And Dallas has been in heat for a long minute...

Tue Sep 26, 07:34:00 PM  
Blogger Mr.Slish said...

Not telling you shit!!! Lol. But isn't that the worst!! When you find out the New pussy you're about to get ain't NEW!!!!..lmaof

Tue Sep 26, 08:02:00 PM  
Blogger The Mistress said...

I'm gonna act like you didn't say you heard "pregnant pussy was the best".

I say if she keeps the baby...RUN!

You're too cute to have baby throw up all over you...specially from a baby that ain't yours.

Find a childfree chick like yours truly!


:-)

Wed Sep 27, 02:02:00 AM  
Blogger The Stiltwalker said...

It would be at your absolute best interest to leave her alone...once you find out she's keeping it atleast. Otherwise suit up for babydaddy status.

Wed Sep 27, 07:39:00 AM  
Blogger NegroPino™ said...

RUN

Wed Sep 27, 09:03:00 AM  
Blogger thee modern isis said...

Damn, I'm late.

I'll co-sign the majority consensus and say leave ol' girl alone. You can have your own drama, you don't need hers as well.

Especially when your swagger is in full effect, I say you party and bullshit this weekend and forget about her.

-Isis

Wed Sep 27, 09:54:00 AM  
Blogger Dynasty said...

Like I told you...she must have already put you in the friend catagory or else she wouldn't have even told you, especially if she's in the uncertain stage of whether or not to keep the baby. So, the likelihood of you even having the opportunity to sleep with her is a dream you're having. LOL!

Keep her as a friend. It's sounds like she needs one.

Wed Sep 27, 10:05:00 AM  
Blogger A woman on the move said...

I’ve never been pregnant before, but I’ll assume she is going through a few emotional changes even early in her pregnancy. Is that something you want to endure with her?

It’s so early in the “relationship/encounter”; I say stand clear and let her make some decisions on her own right now. That’s too much drama to take on so early.

All pussy isn’t good pussy! Don’t try it just because it’s available or tempting. May cost more than you’re willing to pay…

Wed Sep 27, 10:24:00 AM  
Blogger Robert L. Mack said...

@ALL YALL
I love yall bloggers, for real...you make my day...

TCas
That's the problem. I aint deep yet..get it? LOL...
Wait, are you speaking on experience in that P.S. Hmm...

Divine
Plenty of fish in the sea, and plenty of wet water that I can swim through. You like that, don't you?

Nsane Lee Nika
You are so crazy...Don't tempt me...

Uncle Slishy
I knew it wasn't NEW, I just didn't think it would be, um, "tarnished". LOL...

Mistress
Don't act like you act never heard that before! Actually, I'm sure somebody still got a pic of Black Daytona or something where it was a pregnant chick and she had on a shirt that said "Pregnant Pussy is the best" If I find it, I'll post it...

But wait, I had to read twice - you think I'm cute huh? *smiling*
I agree with all you're saying....


Stiltwalker
Robert the Babydaddy...I got chills thinking about it...


Isis
That sounds like a plan right there!
(Party and Bullshit)

Dynasty
Leave it to you to have a different view..I was kinda half sleep when we spoke yesterday...
But I dont think that's the case, because she talks like she likes me, she says I'm a really nice guy...maybe too nice to be caught up in her drama which is why she told me..And wait, don't tell me that something is only a "dream" because I'll make sure that dream comes into reality!

But I like your angle.....

A woman on the Move
You sound like Della Reese as Darnell's (Martin) mom in Thin Line...what did she say, something like "a night of passion can turn into a lifetime of trouble" or something...yall movie buffs know...
But I hear everything your saying, and I'm agreeing..

Wed Sep 27, 11:42:00 AM  
Blogger Dynasty said...

Rob, you know I see things from every angle and think outside the box...that's me...a realist.

You try to catch as much sleep as you can in-between jobs...LOL! I knew you sounded funny...

Wed Sep 27, 12:35:00 PM  
Anonymous Smooth said...

Why do I get the feeling you wanna go the serial dater route? It's hard as heck to just decide to take care of another man's seed but if you feeling her maybe it won't be so bad. I mean we are in are late 20's maybe it's time. You wanna know what I would do... Your probably getting the feeling I wanna go the serial dater route.

Wed Sep 27, 02:54:00 PM  
Blogger Robert L. Mack said...

Smooth
I'll tell what I'll do tomorrow, but um you know me better than anyone.....I hope you were playing about taking care of some one else's seed.....I aint feelin' shorty like that!

Wed Sep 27, 04:40:00 PM  
Blogger DivineLavender said...

Rob...I likes everything you do!

Wed Sep 27, 04:59:00 PM  
Blogger *snake*bite* said...

It might be good for a while but you will probably end up getting attached and considering it aint yours just leave it before things get complicated.
It is like sellin ur soul lol!
At the end of the day tho its ur decision but just be careful and take care.
x x x

Tue Oct 03, 07:27:00 AM  
Blogger Bklyn Diva said...

dude.. LEAVE DAT BROAD ALONE.. u might wanna be her friend but then u will be caught up in the DRAMA she about to go through..

Uncle Rob.. nah not yet.. cause dats what she gone have the baby calling you if u stay around..

then it will be.. Mommy why you and Uncle Rob in the same bed.. LOL


Go now young man.. run fast!

Wed Oct 04, 01:14:00 PM  

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